昨夜は真理菜と少し嫌な感じになりました。
暖との事。
暖が寝る前の歯磨き前にキシリトールをジジがあげたから。
そう、きっとジジが悪いのでしょう。
ジジの行動は基本ダメと言わないので、暖の要求に押される感じでそのまま見守ります。
だから、時としてその行動が真理菜には気に食わないことがあるでしょう。
私、ジジは暖への愛情が強すぎて、真理菜の行動に暖への愛情が感じられないとイライラするのです。
暖の希望は分かっているはずなのになんであんな対応、反応なんだろうと思う事が度々あります。
それを見ていると、ジジの暖への対応がますます甘くなります。
結果、真理菜がジジに怒り、暖へ当たる。。
良くないですね。
もっと、大きな視点で全体を見てジジは反応しないと。
心おだやかに保ち、冷静な対応を優しく、丁寧にしないと。
娘の行動に腹を立てて、自分の行動が同じレベルになってしまっては泥沼です。
一つ上の視点で全体を俯瞰し冷静にベストの対応をしていこうと思います。
こうやって、書くことで自分の行動、相手の行動を冷静に振り返ることができます。
真理菜は最近暖に怒らなくなりました。
ママ（ババ）に言われてから、意識して怒らない様にしている様です。
ただ、我慢しているのでしょうね。
心がそれでいっぱいで優しい対応をするには体と心に余裕がないとできません。
それが、愛を感じない塩対応に見えるのでしょう。
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